not having become a forgetful hearer

Lord says He can place sins as far as the east is from the west. Apparently, that's not far enough to erase it completely from memory, at least for human beings. I don't doubt that certain sins have consequences with far-reaching implications, but shouldn't those time-transcending consequences be decided upon by God and not by man? And whether or not our paparazzi minds are like elephants, the concept of grace still implies handing out positives despite the presence of negatives. Groucho said he wouldn't want to join a club that would have him as a member; not sure I wish to be part of a club that would have me as one while overlooking others with similar outstanding debts.